Morning Thought presented on BBC Radio Jersey by Rose Helie

Monday September 29th 2008

 

Good morning. Believe it or not it is time to think about Christmas shoeboxes again. Today and tomorrow in morning thought, I am focussing on Christmas shoeboxes for children. Each year a couple of thousand Jersey people lovingly & faithfully pack the shoeboxes and a handful of us are privileged to distribute them and see the joy on the children’s faces, when they receive them.

I think back to my first ever Christmas shoebox distribution – that trip had a profound effect on me. Although it was over 12 years ago I still remember 2 specific children to whom we gave shoeboxes – one who was over-joyed, one was disappointed.

Inside the Romanian orphanage the children initially found it hard to realise they could open the colourful boxes they had been given and then to realise the contents were for them to keep, but slowly they got the idea. One dark haired dark eyed girl, maybe aged 8, began screaming with joy and ran off to show the carers what she had found in her box. She was jumping for joy and shouting – what was it that gave her such joy? It was a new toothbrush. Yes a new toothbrush. But to that girl a new toothbrush was terribly important and the most exciting item in her box of goodies.

It was in a school on another day and we were distributing again. It was in the days when we packed boy boxes and girl boxes. And as always we ran out of boy boxes – in fact we had twice as many boxes for girls as we had for boys. So inevitably boys were given girls boxes, in fact approximately a third of the boys received a girl’s box. At times the boys seemed quite pleased but not one little chap, probably aged 7 or 8. Inevitable he was given a girl’s box - it was a lovely box as I recall, but only suitable if for a girl with long hair who liked dressing dolls. He eagerly took out all the contents then as the box was empty there was a howl followed by the most heart rending sobs. We managed to understand that the problem was that there was no machina or no car in his box. He was devastated – he knew it was his only Christmas gift that year, his only chance of getting the toy car he longed for. But he was given a girl’s box with no car.

That is the main reason why now in Mustard Seed we make sure every box has a toy car and why we focus on packing unisex boxes, because we want to stop children being disappointed. For many of the children receiving our shoeboxes it will still be their only Christmas gift so it needs to be the best possible box with a range of fun items suitable for either a boy or a girl, as well as pencils, pens, writing and drawing books to use in school, a toothbrush and toothpaste, a warm hat or socks, with a teddy to cuddle for the younger children.

I hope you will pack a Christmas shoebox for a needy child this year. Mustard Seed has information sheets at the Parish Halls, so please pick one up and follow our guide-lines. We do ask for £2 donation with each box – that money is to cover transport and distribution costs and to buy sweets to give to each child receiving a Christmas shoebox. You can be certain that if he or she needs a Christmas shoebox then that child is in need of some help 52 weeks of the year. I hope also that as well as packing that box you will pray for the child receiving the box, maybe along the lines of “Lord God thank you for all the benefits we enjoy. I pray now for the child who will receive this shoebox that I have packed, I ask that this box will bring real joy, that the contents will be just right for the child who receives it. I pray the child will have enough food to eat today and will find love and peace in You”.

 

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