Morning Thought presented on BBC Radio Jersey by Rose Helie

Wednesday October 1st 2008

Good morning. Most of us who pack Christmas shoeboxes say the worst part is covering the box and the lid. I know that I for one am hopeless at sticking paper on the box neatly to cover box and the lid, especially the lid, but thankfully some of the Mustard Seed volunteers are really good at this. But it is worth covering those boxes, because they look so much more attractive.

I remember being moved to tears on one of my first visits to Romania in the summer. A little girl from the private orphanage we assisted signalled to me to go with her into the bedroom she shared with 2 other girls. Under her bed she showed me her most treasured possession – the Christmas shoebox, still attractively covered but looking decidedly tatty by then. To her the box was a special space where she could put her few precious possessions. I have never forgotten that box – that’s why we always want to make sure the box looks attractive.

When we are distributing the boxes the children all want the biggest and most attractive looking boxes because they expect if the box is bigger and better on the outside it will be the better on the inside too. Sometimes as we give the boxes out we can see the children looking at the pile of boxes and calculating if their box will be that smaller one or the bigger one, the brightly coloured or the one that is not decorated – and we can see the look of joyful anticipation or slight disappointment in their eyes.

The social workers tell us that it can cause bad feeling even problems among the pensioners if one receives a much larger box than everyone else. That is how highly valued each shoebox gift is – to the recipient it is so very important. To avoid possible disappointment we in Mustard Seed ask people to use boxes that are all more or less the same size and to decorate them.

Often when we visit the pensioners we find they have saved their decorated shoebox also. In April a little old lady carefully got out the shoebox we gave her last year – the contents were gone and she now used it to keep her papers in and among the contents of that box were the 2 Christmas cards that had been in the Christmas shoeboxes she had had over the last 2 years – she did not understand what they said, but they were treasured possessions for her to keep and to get out and look at and to show to visitors.

A couple of years ago at our Romanian kindergarten, a very smartly dressed young boy collected his shoebox. He looked so smart that I felt sure he was not in real need and afterwards I questioned the social worker about whether the boy should really have had a box. He replied “I will take you to his house – he lives with his grandmother, his parents deserted him”. The house was a little mud brick two room dwelling with a wood-burning stove for warmth and cooking, we squelched through the mud to get there. Once back home the smart clothes were put away – I learnt they been on our previous aid lorry. Through the interpreter the boy explained “I wore my best clothes today because I knew I would be receiving a shoebox”.

In the Bible Samuel the prophet who lived about 3000 years ago said “Man looks at the outward appearance but the Lord God looks at the heart”.  He learnt the importance of not making judgements about people based their outward appearance. It is important for us today to remember that in our dealings with other people. With Christmas shoeboxes the beautifully covered box on the outside should indicate that there are good contents inside.

This year in Mustard Seed we are offering something new. If you feel you have not got the time but that you want to send a Christmas shoebox, then we offer to decorate the box and fill it on your behalf if you will donate the money to cover the cost.

There are numerous other charities – most much bigger than Mustard Seed Jersey - that send out Christmas shoeboxes to children who are in need. If you normally support one of those organisations then I hope that these Morning thoughts will stimulate and encourage you to get yourself organised to start packing or giving through your chosen charity. There really are a huge number of people in need in the world and compared to others we in Jersey have so much. We have more than enough so we have a responsibility to share.

 

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